"If You want to know where your heart is,look to where you mind goes when it wanders."
There are certain instances in life when you realize that your life is completely messed up.There's isn't a thing which is actually in its place. It is a very common problem which most of us come across in our lives when we live a life which actually doesn't belong to us.
We spend our whole lives doing what we 'should do' and not actually what we 'want to' either due to the expectations of our closed ones or because everyone else is doing that. It's a common belief that the thing which gives you more money ,status or power is worth doing but what about the satisfaction.? In this blind race people tend to forget that satisfaction or happiness doesn't come from what we intellectually are supposed to do but instead what we intuitively want to.
Most of the times we are confused about what to do with our life whether it is about work or relationships.Who doesn't want to get a 'good secured job' , with monthly earnings in lakhs. But have you ever thought that, is that money going to give you any sort of comfort more correctly happiness , If you are just stuck at your workplace from morning 8 to evening 8 waiting for the weekends and not enjoying a single bit of your work.? You will be desperate for the weekends to come when you can take a break from your job-place , spending time with friends and taking out all sort of frustration about your work.At that time you will realize that instead of going after what others were doing if you had chosen what you really loved ,Your life would be much simpler because Sometimes it's all about your ability to believe in where you are going even when you are not sure about what lies ahead.
Taking engineering stream after high school is one of the most common example of a mass imitation.There are less than 10% of people who really want to be good engineers and excel in their field.I have a friend who has taken this stream just because her best friend was taking it .What's the sense in doing such things.? No doubt , she will complete her graduation because getting marks in any sort of examination is not really a tough task but what about her future?? The future which she is going to face is in complete darkness.I asked her once whether she is happy with her life.? And she had nothing to say in response.
Whatever you allow to happen will always continue until and unless you taken a step to make it correct.The same applies to the relationships.Getting in any relationship due to someone's expectations is an easy task but to live it ,is the thing in which most of the people generally fail.
So now the question of the hour is Are you happy with your life?
Are the things which you do in leisure time , the ones you intuitively want to do or simply because you are supposed to do them?
What you actually want to do? Though it is a tough one to answer but you have to find it for your good future..You have to do what actually defines you as a person, who you really want to be.People generally chose the most easiest way of finding an answer to this 'The counselors' .But instead of approaching a counselor you can do it by yourself. You just need to sit back for a moment ,rewind whatever you did so far in your life ,what all things actually gave you happiness ,what sort of work you enjoy the most..And there You will find your answer. It really works.
You don't really have to live your life, all-time filling someone Else's expectations .When You will assemble every piece of your life not by any assumption but consciously it will feel like its all yours now, not driven by anyone else, totally crafted and painted by your own colors.The way it really has to be.
